6. Why Life skills are essential?

We all worked very hard most of the time in our life and even we succeed too, but there is something missing in our life. We will feel bad at some times unknowingly. Suddenly we will fear about some thing which we don't understand what is all about.

There is no point of having more money with you in life, if you are lack in self confidence. You should have confidence at least to secure the money.

There is a saying, 

                  "If you plan on being any thing less than you are capable of being, you will probably be unhappy all the days of your life".

You must possess three important skills to be in life, 

1. Know yourself

2. Love yourself

3. Be true to yourself

We need to acquire some more skills to be in happy in life,

4. Personal value system

5. Should be open minded

6. Perspective

7. Sense of Humor

8. Resilience

9. Acceptance

The person should acquire all these skills at least to the certain extent.

The world will not give respect only for money and power. if it is so think of Mahatma Gandhi and Nelson Mandela. 

Every one should spent at least 30 minutes a day to be better than yesterday.

Personal Development is an Ongoing process and journey.

 "To be what we are, and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the only end of life".

Good Readers are Good Leaders

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5.Fear of Failure

Fear of Failure

I think it's the most funniest word.

People used to fear on failure.

But I will suggest you some steps to overcome the fear...

     There are many people who succeed in their life... But if you ask the people they will simply say "Failure is the steeping stone for success". Many people like Henry Ford, Albert Einstein, Marie curie did not succeed at their first attempt. They failed in many attempts and they reached success.

      Why even Mahindra Singh Dhoni did not became captain in his first international match.

Why people have fear on failure?

Don't know what it really takes to succeed.
     

     People have the habit of always focusing on success. They don't even care about the failure. How many of them know Abraham Lincoln failed 8 times in election, Michael Jordan was not selected for his high school basketball team and the computer giants Bill Gates and Steve Jobs are drop outs. In today's glamorous world, we always think about the success of people not about the failure.... 

      

     A small equation.

     1 st time failure = Failure
     2 nd time failure = Failure
     . 
     .
     .
     .
     Atlast Failure fails = Success

Dream high. But don't expect dream to be fulfilled on first day.

   As a youth we always think to be a Rock star in a single day. But is it realistic? No. People always think they will succeed in their first attempt. May be in some cases you will succeed in first attempt but not in all cases. 

   If you ask the same question to Sachin, Ambani, Ratan Tata? Undoubtedly, their answer would be know.

   

   First plan to set the realistic dream and chase the dream... But once dream is fixed, don't worry about the journey. The journey may be harder but you should always travel to reach the destination.

Perfectionism:

       This is a word, where every people are trying to be....  But no one will be perfect all time. If they try to be perfect all time they will fail to face the failure. They believe that every thing should be done perfectly with no room for mistakes. If they didn't do it perfectly, they will not do at all..

Ways to overcome failure:

1.Understand and expect that all time you will fail.

2. Don't take failure personally.

3. No one succeeds all the time, probably not even most of the time.

4. Don't forgot 'Failure had produced many success'.

5. Appreciate the benefits of failure.

6. Believe in yourself.... 

4. Developing Self Awareness

Do you ever wonder why some people always seem to know where they are going in life?????

The biggest question is “Are you doing Life?” or “Is life doing you?”

Are you consciously choosing what you want most?

The Answer for all this is SELF AWARENESS.

     Self Awareness is the process of Understanding beliefs, thoughts, motivation and recognizes how they affect others. It’s a lifelong process that happens gradually, but at times it can be helpful to put effort into raising our self awareness.

5 Pillars of Self Awareness

1. Emotional Intelligence.

2. Core Self Evaluation.

3. Values.

4. Learning Style.

5. Attitude towards Change.

To Know your level answer these question?

1. What makes you unique?

2. What are your 3 Main Strengths and 3 Main weaknesses?

3. How would you describe your personality?

4. What’s your favorite book and website and why?

5. What are your long term Personal and Professional Goals?

Your time is Limited. Don’t waste it by living someone else’s Life – Steve Jobs

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3. 10 Core Life Skills

1. Self Awareness

2. Empathy.

3. Critical Thinking.

4. Creative Thinking.

5. Decision Making.

6. Problem Solving.

7. Effective Communication.

8. Interpersonal Relationship.

9. Coping with Stress.

10. Coping with Emotion.

2. What is all about Life Skills.

          The Life skills are the skills which are used in your life circumstances according to your culture, beliefs, age and geographic locations. The most import life skill is the ability to learn. By learning new skills we will increase our understanding of the world around us and equip ourselves. We will learn new skills to live a more productive and fulfilling life. Life skills are not taught directly but it can be learn through experience and practice.

There are many other skills other than Life Skills.

1. Interpersonal Skills.

2. Leadership Skills.

3. Presentation Skills.

4. Writing Skills.

5. Numeracy Skills.

    The most successful people in the world have these cluster of skills. Those who want to really succeed in their life should have these skills mandate.

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1. An Introductory Note

Hi My dear Friends,

Thanks for visiting my blog for the first time.

       Hope this blog will makes you to repeat again.......

I welcome you all to visit my blog, because you are the only inspiration for my blog. I am basically from the place where education is compared equal to God. But, I found that only education will not provide every thing to the people. People are very good in achieving their grades and degrees but failed miserably in the career. The reason is the education is not updated as far as concerned to the technological era. They are not practiced in Life skills. Because, Life skills are the mandatory thing that each and every one show know to lead a proper life. In this blog, I will explain about the life skills and the ways to implement it practically. 

Agenda of my Blog

AIM - To teach the Life skills and the ways of implementing it.

TARGET PEOPLE - Students Community, People who concerned about Life.

INPUT METHODS - Videos, Audios, Slide Shows, Presentation and Passage.

OUTPUT METHODS - You will gain yourself

REACH ME - shanmuganathanmba2011@gmail.com

RING ME - +91 9159359599.

Once again I thank you for visiting my blog...

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