My Dear Readers,
Now, I am trying to be some different and identifying the way to be a
Human Being.
I always
consider that man is a social animal, but the only difference is Sixth sense.
Ironically, I don’t know how many of them using that. In fact, I am also not
using it sometimes. The basic part of life lies in how happily we live the life.
There are many things which make us happy.
Whatsapping
@ midnight making funny comments with people.
Playing
candycrush the whole day which makes us to feel we are the king maker of this
game.
Making
call to customer call and making fun out them.
Having
some pennies in pocket and behaving like a millionaire.
These are the some examples of
happy life, but there are some basic things which really make us happy.
There is a person named Maslow, I
don’t know how many of them know about him. He is man who defined the Theory of
Motivation. Don’t worry. It’s not going to be a theory class. He defined the
needs of people which drive them to be happy.
The needs are as follows
Physiological
Needs
Safety
and Basic Needs
Social
Needs
Esteem
Needs
Self
actualization Needs
1. Physiological Needs:
This covers the
basic things like food, water and shelter. Mostly 70% of the people will be
happy if they get all these. People will be satisfied if they get all these
without any speed breaks.
People steal because they don’t have money to buy food.
Countries fight
for water, because they don’t have enough sources to produce food.
Wars happening for extending the Boundaries
This need is the responsible and important one for
all the needs.
The worst part is all basic needs
can be satisfied only with money.
2. Safety and Security Needs:
We live in a
country in which our manager doesn’t know when he will be thrown out of his
job. The next need is safety and security needs. People gets fear when they
tend to lose the job, when they getting sick and when they met an accident and
injured. This is the need which affects our body and mind simultaneously. We
need to be very optimistic in approaching the need because there is more life
than this.
Best thing I can quote here is “Ask the
employees of TCS – Tata Consultancy Services, no one will know about layoff
better than them.”
3. Social Needs:
We can live without safety needs
also, but without this need it’s better to die than live. All the ones which
include family, friends, relatives and society will come under this. I always
like to be engage in this type of need so that my life is going smooth and fun.
Find good people around you socialize with them, go for a movie, dinner or play
something which makes both of you happy.
4. Esteem Needs or Ego Needs:
This is called as Killer needs.
Because, it will really kills the people if they did not get this need. People
expect that they should be respected by all the other surroundings. This is the
important need that everyone should consider and more patience requires acquiring
this need.
5. Self Actualization Needs:
This is some need which makes you
happy than any other need. Many people
are specialized in their field. Like, ‘Sachin’ is related to ‘Cricket’ and ‘Obama’
is related to ‘Politics’. So, you cannot ask any lay man to hit 100 centuries
within a short time. Make someone to manage
the economic progress of United States. The thing is you should give all
opportunities to the people who really excel in their field. This will give us
the more happiness in life.
For example,
Bill
Gates started Melinda Gates Foundation and providing jobs to many to survive
the life of many HIV patients.
Finally, I ask all my reader to
follow this Maslow’s theory which brings you more happiness in your life.
You can also help others to acquire the required needs and improve their standard of Living.
Sharing is Caring
Helping makes you a real human being.
Makesyousmart
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