5.Fear of Failure

Fear of Failure

I think it's the most funniest word.

People used to fear on failure.

But I will suggest you some steps to overcome the fear...

     There are many people who succeed in their life... But if you ask the people they will simply say "Failure is the steeping stone for success". Many people like Henry Ford, Albert Einstein, Marie curie did not succeed at their first attempt. They failed in many attempts and they reached success.

      Why even Mahindra Singh Dhoni did not became captain in his first international match.

Why people have fear on failure?

Don't know what it really takes to succeed.
     

     People have the habit of always focusing on success. They don't even care about the failure. How many of them know Abraham Lincoln failed 8 times in election, Michael Jordan was not selected for his high school basketball team and the computer giants Bill Gates and Steve Jobs are drop outs. In today's glamorous world, we always think about the success of people not about the failure.... 

      

     A small equation.

     1 st time failure = Failure
     2 nd time failure = Failure
     . 
     .
     .
     .
     Atlast Failure fails = Success

Dream high. But don't expect dream to be fulfilled on first day.

   As a youth we always think to be a Rock star in a single day. But is it realistic? No. People always think they will succeed in their first attempt. May be in some cases you will succeed in first attempt but not in all cases. 

   If you ask the same question to Sachin, Ambani, Ratan Tata? Undoubtedly, their answer would be know.

   

   First plan to set the realistic dream and chase the dream... But once dream is fixed, don't worry about the journey. The journey may be harder but you should always travel to reach the destination.

Perfectionism:

       This is a word, where every people are trying to be....  But no one will be perfect all time. If they try to be perfect all time they will fail to face the failure. They believe that every thing should be done perfectly with no room for mistakes. If they didn't do it perfectly, they will not do at all..

Ways to overcome failure:

1.Understand and expect that all time you will fail.

2. Don't take failure personally.

3. No one succeeds all the time, probably not even most of the time.

4. Don't forgot 'Failure had produced many success'.

5. Appreciate the benefits of failure.

6. Believe in yourself....